And I do mean a lot. If you suspect you have cancer, don't be like me – get it checked out ... From being an energetic husband of 79 who had cared unstintingly for his sick wife he … That helped me. But whatever you do Mrs. Beckyboo2 don't repress it like your husband could be. Some relationships get stronger during cancer treatment. He constantly puts me down and critisizes everything!!! I have cancer for the second time & now have a few weeks to live. Apple of my eye. I know I snapped at her a few times. One year later, he was diagnosed with colon cancer. Only you and your partner know how you feel about this. The situation is cancer. “For about a year now, I have gradually felt my husband of twenty-two years pulling away from me and our family. I saw a shrink when I was caregiving my mother in law. I can only imagine you feel alone. He's to start chemo in a couple of weeks. Your spouse or partner may feel just as scared by your cancer as you do. And the previous comments about the role of medications could be spot on. My husband and I have been married for 46 years, mostly very happily. It added medications but damn, somedays they changed my mood for the better. I did not say no to most of the changes but some made me snap a bit. I am hoping he will accept this help, otherwise I will leave him. My husband went from making me feel like I was the only one .after we got married he change he started me thinking . I first want to say that I can not understand what you are going through only TRY to wrap my mind around it. There are many reasons why your husband treats you poorly and gets angry with you for no reason. Please check the steroid use and pain meds carefully, because these alone will do this. For many years now, I have felt the spirit of my late Husband with me, and the love we shared while he was alive is wrapped all around me like a snuggly blanket. I realized my husband was not going to be the loving and caring kind of guy I dreamed he might be or that I could turn him into. He liked to try my nerves and see how much I could stand. The urologist told my husband that we need to meet with the Cancer Team - a urologist, a radiologist & some one else he can't recall in February I saw a shrink through my treatment, that helped...see if you can get him to a shrink. I was a caregiver to my mother in law when she had terminal cancer. You may want to decide what tasks to share and if other people in your life could help with them. I could not go anywhere and when my mom was taking care of me....I was the transportation. To reduce stress, it may help to remind yourself that everyone reacts differently. God bless you Both! Together you can meet with your doctor and learn about common symptoms, your treatment choices, and their side effects. After being in relationship with my husband for years, he broke up with me. It is a horrible unnatural burden and I know some men and marriages don’t survive. The best advice I can give you is to respect that HE is going through this and HE needs space. I ended up getting a huge pill box with 7 days, and 4 slots per day. Don’t tolerate. Well besides the cure. He tells me I’m just insecure and he loves me, but I don’t feel it. Yes, yes. I’m imperfect and I embrace the real me. Copyright 2000-2019 © Cancer Survivors Network. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice. She in turn doesn't know what I am going through. Getting things out into the open may help you both. You both may feel anxious, helpless, or afraid. If he refuses all this "stuff", then you know what you may have to do, regardless of cancer or not. Its hard for him to see, even though you don't have cancer, you are going through something also... trying to cope with this situation your husband is going through. A life changing situation. Others like to focus inward by doing things, such as washing the dishes or fixing things around the house. I was thinking he really had some resentment towards me. The wife and I, and a whole raft of friends, have been doing stuff together almost 24/7, and it's almost impossible not to feel constant gratitude. I see it is usual for them to lash out on their loved ones by the other comments. My husband for one. There is no manual for Husbands of cancer, we are left to find our own way. Some like to talk things out or focus on other people. It can be whatever you both like to do. Not to give 2nd thought to cancer. I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. Probably 'cause it too is bitter sweet! However this is her most intense moment & also this is mine. She did not speak the language so she was stuck, too. I wish I had some great words of insight, but I don't. Right? Others are weakened. Looking at other women. It's about spending time together. Then I stopped for a second and recinded it. And I was afraid to talk about my fears with him because I didn't want to upset him. Those qualities are still there. Anger is a significant element of grief, and when you're in the throes of grief, it's hard to recognize that your anger really stems from the grief, the helplessness, and the fear. She was an utter ***** 80% of the time, so when I read this I thought to myself, "I would never be that way with my caregivers!" He'll come around. cancer husband disloyal by: Anonymous I am a Gemini woman, and my husband is a cancerian, And offcourse good looking, smart , sexy n caring, but disloyal. Many couples find that it helps to plan special occasions. But you carry him so when he does come around that will carry you. I've developed zero tolerance for that, and in those cases I just don't associate with them, because I know I'd be tempted to rip them a new one (which they might or might not deserve). So, yes, I deluded myself for a long time. Just let him know that you love him and you are there for him and then let him be. We both feel alone...and it's neither of us with the disease. These differences can cause tension because each person may expect the other to act the way they would in their place. Until he can talk about his situation freely no matter how it comes out he could remain that way. Recently his femur broke and he had a rod put in, and he's worse now. If it does try to remember how you felt before all of this, I think that may be what he would want to do but, is right in the middle of all this. The sections below may help you think about ways to communicate that work for both of you. I feel very unwanted. My husband has become more distant ever since we moved to another state. If you do not find the exact resolution you are looking for, then go for a native or higher resolution. 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I was afraid I wouldn't be able to help him or that he might not recover. That is the ONLY thing we can compare. I wasn't conciously mean or hateful, but maybe I could have been better at times. I am 64, he is 70, and we have two sons. My husband has stage 3 lung cancer.He is responding to treatment.He has constantly retreated from me.He barely speaks to me,is very nasty and is more incosiderate than usual.Cancer is killing my marriage.I thought that we would deal with this together but hes so awful that i don't know how much i can take.He's been taking treatments for 5 months now and have shrunk the tumors over 50%.I cannot figure out whats going on with him.He will not speak to me and when he does its always hateful and hurtful.I know hes scared but we are making progress. I think m… Some things that cause stress for you and your partner can't be solved right now. I wrote out all her meds and the function. Ive talked with friends about it too, had g/fs tell me that they have had b/fs that were cancers and acted the same way! My schedule was feed me and put me to bed. I suffer from Panic Disorder, I am being treated and would be considered 'stable' now. Sept. 21, 2007 -- Cancer takes an emotional toll on both partners in a marriage, not just the spouse who is the patient, a new study shows. My mother has cancer. I know he is a harmless flirt, he will just look at females but won't dare to talk to them. You and your partner may need to be a team now more than ever. The thing that bothers me … You're not alone, and it's okay to express that you have some needs, too--you're scared and vulnerable and in pain, too, and you need someone to support you just as much as he needs someone to support him. If you can when your reading it try and laugh......really hard. Please consult your healthcare provider with any questions or concerns you may have regarding your condition. Including your spouse or partner in treatment decisions is important. Some couples find it easier to talk about serious issues than other couples. You may even find it hard to be taken care of by someone you love. we have a kid as well, we had a very nice conjugal life, though he is inan extra marital affair with another girl.. Stage 3b lung is where we are at. People generally feel that things like cancer will happen to others, not them, - that's pretty common - and so is finding out that maybe your mate isn't who you thought they were when you married too. That I can identify with. That leaves me as her Husband, her therapist, her advocate, her … I am sorry you are going through this. The feeling I get is so strong it's like he has actually just walked into the room. it has been a whirlwind for the last 2 months since finding this out. My husband got treatment in a different city, and so we were physically apart for some of the treatment because I was going back and forth between our home (we have young children, so this was necessary) and being with him in Denver; this made us grow even further apart. The opponent will have to calm down too, at least in order to hear what you say. He has become more sullen, angry, and mean. Wow! Now we sleep apart. Then once a week why we watched tv, I would fill her pills. That's not being selfish--it's being smart and will enable you to be a stronger caretaker. I've been known to be a tad judgmental, arrogant, and snappish under certain conditions in the past, but if anything, I've become less that way since. Once I was the love of his life. I know it's hard but trust me he needs you to be there without being THERE, if that makes any sense. Why Is My Husband So Mean to Me? Great point. Not that it was perfect before. My boyfriend is also a cancer and they are very possessive and controlling, They are CRAZY!! Download this image for free in High-Definition resolution the choice "download button" below. 6.30pm that evening ‘Rob, I’ve got cancer’. I try to understand and know he is going through this and how he must feel. He is my second husband, and the love of my life. I could see how that could be a big factor for somebody who's always been healthy and/or in control. I truly think it will. That can mean renting a movie, going out to eat or for an event, or looking through old photos. Everyone needs to feel needed and loved. You may even find it hard to be taken care of by someone you love. My husband says he was doing that. Watching my husband gracefully cope with a terminal lung illness has shown me that an ill person can live a beautiful, unselfish life to the fullest…a lesson Dad has yet to learn. They invaded my home and rearranged my kitchen while taking care of me. Hello, I was stage 3, now 4 with current brain tumors and from a man's perspective I may be able shed some light on this. Signs My Husband Doesn’t Love Me Anymore – If your spouse prefers to spend time before the computer, examining a guide or going out with colleagues or friends to get a beer, you almost certainly have a problem. Focus on the qualities you've always love about your other half, be it a laugh, smile, or a personal quirk nobody else can get. My bowels haven't worked since Oct/Nov. There is this married virgo woman in our group. I’m praying everyday.My question is it me is he losing interest or is this normal? Perhaps you'll be able to muddle through together and find a way to each be the support for one another, but if this doesn't happen, I'd encourage you to seek a support system whether it's through a counselor, a good friend, family members, a religious advisor, whatever. Yes sometimes it is awesome to take your mind away, and that is ok. As the great Marilyn once said ‘if you can’t handle me at my worse, you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best’. My caregivers, had to deal with life alone or without me. Look at the issues that bother you such as dealing with the unknown or feeling a strain between you. I enjoy his company: he is charming, intelligent and considerate. I was about to post something like this too. Eventually, we worked through this and talked a lot about it, and what we experienced may not pertain to you, but I will share it just in case it gives you some insights. I'm an aries woman, my husband is a cancer man. Re: "My Spouse is angry with me" Thank you all for your understanding. Make plans for the future. Google that song's lyrics. But it has caused major vomiting & so now I've had to stop the feed. After his first round of radiation and chemo he tumors shrunk over 50% too but at his six month PET they found it had spread and moved him to stage 4. Husband told me he is stage 2 oral cancer, and it has spread to his neck. I've had to deal with that. One day I had him pull out all the drugs he was on after chemo. My wife is a private person and too proud by half. I have caught him looking at porn. They are very stubborn and have … The meds made/make me feel like crap. It seems like the only thing we wish for at this point! Just about every day for the nine months of her treatment, her breast cancer topped the hit parade of most popular topics in our household. Some days may end up being better than others, depending on how your partner feels. My husband and I went through all those stupid phases. Some relationships get stronger during cancer treatment. Months after chemo, I still have health issues. I wish upon you happiness. My husband was diagnosed with stage 4 non-small cell lung cancer with metastasis to his brain and now his bone. Your dates don't have to be fancy. That's annoying. He was particularly awful when the news was the worst, such as when he found out he the cancer had spread through too many lymph nodes to merit surgery. That would make most people mean, at least for awhile. I definitely would follow up on the social worker help, and I hope this works out Ok for all of you so affected. He does not appear to prefer to be in your company much anymore, and he usually has some reason ready as a way to avoid seeing you. For others its exact opposite. He couldn’t have enough of me. There was never a question if I was going to stick around for this. My own experiences and feelings tell me when my Hearty drops in on a visit. For some reason it makes me cry but I always feel better afterwards. ... of your situation, and support for you, because as a guy, this whole idea is just foreign to me. I felt so bad about not being able to drive much. I'm a 46 year old female. 2. I don't know why it happens either, but I must say that your words were well-said. Hi there. I can honestly say that I rarely feel lonely alone, yes, but there´s a big difference between that and loneliness. This will help you plan for the upcoming weeks and months. I don't know why that happened, but I certainly don't think what I said was so signficant that it needed to be said twice. I could talk for a bit, but then I sounded so labored. Combining cancer and a rocky marriage unfortunately doesn't seem uncommon either and it certainly is a … And on a purely practical level, I figure I may well become a serious burden on somebody before I'm done by no choice of my own, so they don't need me to be a PITA before the fact. It made sense to me – for a while. It was much easier for her to take the pills and easier for us to make adjustments as needed... while she was not angry.... this helped with her energy level, nausea and overall well being. A few people have asked me if this is a “premonition” type dream and if they should get a medical check up for cancer. I totally forgot that really important part. Others are weakened. You both need each other and there may be times you won't be able to lean on each other. But... sometimes I can't take it. My husband also has advanced lung cancer. Your spouse’s cancer and the treatments have probably affected his or her sexual interest, sexual functioning, or feelings of attractiveness. is a very hard thing to have @this time. You can also plan these dates to include other people, if you miss being around others. Nearly all couples feel more stress than usual when cancer occurs. Some users have emailed me a bit concerned following the dream of cancer. I know it is depressing and frustrating, especially since he is a total control freak, but this he has no control over. Sometimes I feel like it would be easier to just think it wasn't there. I came to know recenty that these 2 were eyeing each other. It was so hard to be supportive and sympathetic when he was being so mean, but for some perspective--he was forced to deal with the reality that his odds of surviving were much less than what he thought they would be when he woke up that morning. It is a very old song but one with deep meaning. And in turn, make sure you help your partner. You may want to say up front, "I know we can't solve this today. A new onset of HPV does not necessarily mean … After listening to the book and focusing on myself, I hired Dr. Ito to help So as a result I can't eat & have been in hospital since Nov being fed thru a picc line. I am so sorry. Do not use this information to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease without consulting with a qualified healthcare provider. is he cheating what I do wrong and he always mean and yells and name calling I … I still have snappish days. I did everything within my reach to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so badly because of the love I had for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. keep praying God is always with you. We were already having difficulties in our marriage, when he told me. Does that mean that my husband cheated on me?” The patient was educated about transmission, clearance, and risks of HPV. The content on this site is for informational purposes only. Remind yourself that there is a future after cancer. When my husband was diagnosed with cancer, everyone from doctors to colleagues to friends made it clear to me that this was his journey, his story. We both needed to be divorced to find our way to each other, and consider it to have been beshert (the Yiddish word for "meant to be"). I’m quirky, klutzy, funny, sometimes snarky, forgiving, and everything in between. I went to the same horrible experience with my husband, he used to be the most loving husband and the evil cancer turn my dear husband into a monster. I can't even try and know what she is going through. I pray for all of us. Cancer may have become a part of who your spouse is, but it doesn't define them. Some of these reasons have to do with underlying mental and physical issues that are not being addressed while … My husband got the call on Thursday night from his urologist - following a biopsy the previous week - the biopsy was done because the urologist said his PSA was elevated. After 22+years together sadly,my husband views me as “damaged goods” now since being diagnosed last Jan.with breast cancer,undergoing a double mastectomy,chemo,and now the hormonal therapy.I’m honestly not sure (@present anyway) which exactly has/is…hurts me most! I have cancer in my pelvis, small bowel & around my liver. I pray for recovery for your husband and unity for the both of you so you can face this ugliness and come out on top!!! You may have always been the "strong one" in your family, but now is the time to let your loved one help you. They said no more radiation and only palliative chemo. I see my momma trying to do that sometimes. You can simply express gratitude and let them know you understand it's a tough time for them too. And yet sometimes talking about these things can be helpful. But I cannot cope with this. My wife and I have talked about cancer a lot since she was diagnosed with the disease in 2001. You both may feel anxious, helpless, or afraid. ‘I’ll go on my own, if I’m going to kark it I doubt it’ll be before 8pm’. You both also I will keep in thoughts and prayers. While I tried not to be a downer for all, I just do not have the energy to meet the expectations of all...so I avoided people while on chemo. So you’d think there was nothing left unsaid about any stage of her ordeal. I will stay hopeful that it comes out without negativity for you. We got married with our children on a family cruise to Alaska. He/you must for your marriage's sake, speak with a oncology social worker, this will help tremendously. For example, your risks of developing certain types of breast cancer, bowel cancer or ovarian cancer are higher if you have close relatives who developed the condition.. This can be as simple as letting the other person fluff your pillow, bring you a cool drink, or read to you. This is all so sad. Both of us were angry at the situation and at times, took it out on each other because it's really the safest person to take it out on, the person you can take for granted. Unfortunately his issues were probably brewing prior to the cancer. I have found that alot of cancer men are like this. Its just now whatever was there seems to be amplified 10 fold. Talk about what decisions you should make together and which ones you should make alone. I have a few “moms” (my mom, birthmom, and ex-boyfriend’s mom) who visited for a week at a time or more, cooking all of my meals, driving me to my appointments, and keeping me … i have cancer and my husband is mean to me is important information accompanied by photo and HD pictures sourced from all websites in the world. He has to work through this part by himself. Its really hard for some people to show anything but anger when things get tough on them because that is the easiest emotion to feel. Usually, people move beyond the anger to other emotions, and hopefully your husband will, too. The only area in which I've found myself with a shorter fuse, and I'm probably a bad person for feeling this way, is with people who previously didn't give me the time of day (or actively made things difficult for me) and somehow find me OK now that I've experienced a deadly disease. Is he taking them appropriately? Use of this online service is subject to the disclaimer and the terms and conditions. Start your feelings from scratch. My sister tried to feed me all the time and wanted me to be super happy. After losing all my hair to chemo, things have changed for me. Another friend, who doesn’t have a lot of time but has a lot of money, generously paid for many of my Uber rides. I was so scared when my husband got cancer. Nearly all couples feel more stress than usual when cancer occurs. It was insane and things changed significantly as he started weaning off of them. My husband has stage 3 lung cancer.He is responding to treatment.He has constantly retreated from me.He barely speaks to me,is very nasty and is more incosiderate than usual.Cancer is killing my marriage.I thought that we would deal with this together but hes so awful that i don't know how much i can take.He's been taking treatments for 5 months now and have shrunk the tumors over 50%.I … I found it so ironic that my greatest fear was losing my husband, but that in some ways we were already growing so far apart that we were losing each other regardless of the outcome. My husband is well respected and he always looks at other beautiful, stylish, motherly women ( high standards ). My husband and I went through something similar, and this was in some ways the most difficult part of the cancer experience, and it was further compounded by well-meaning friends telling us how this experience would only bring us closer and show us how much we love each other (that comes later, but not during chemo when you're just trying to make it through). He could also be pulling away in an attempt to lessen the pain of eventually leaving you. He too is so nasty to me. Since my mother's diagnoses my marriage to is strained...to say the least. But I'd like to just talk about how it's going and how we're feeling." Just know that he too feels that way. So you may need to be okay with last-minute changes. For a long time I ignored my husband’s attacks and thought that it would pass. I remember those steriods just, ugh, made me unhappy in my skin....but too exhausted to do anything about it....so I probably was snappish during that period of chemo. It feels horrible coming back to it though so it is bitter sweet. Some common examples are the loss of libido caused by chemotherapy and hormonal therapy, the impotence caused by prostate cancer treatments, and the body image effects of mastectomy and reconstructive surgery. But if you don't feel like your communication needs are being met, you may want to seek help from a counselor or social worker. Your spouse or partner may feel just as scared by your cancer as you do. They often feel stress about: It helps to know that people express their emotions in different ways. On the contrary, he started to criticize, mock at me and use rude words even more often. Some types of cancer can run in families. If you would like to reproduce some or all of this content, see Reuse of NCI Information for guidance about copyright and permissions. While my hair is back and my health has vastly improved, I no longer feel the need to try and be something I’m not. 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